Friday, December 27, 2013

Love survival

destruktivna:

“My wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. She has lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up. Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it. After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth. She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much.And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man.If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“                 
- Brad Pitt


Sweet ❤️ 
 
“My wife got sick.  She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. 

She has lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs.

She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up. 

Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. 

I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it. 
After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth. 

She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.

I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.

You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much. And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“              

- Brad Pitt

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

There goes the ol' saying.....


In old times, couples 'fix' things. In these time, couples 'replace' things. True enough. Real wisdom your Gramma got there, Bernard. You are truly blessed. 

It is adamant by saying You've got a gem with you when you've got an elder at home. Of course there are exceptions when some may have bad parents or somehow cookoo elderly that gives rotten examples. Morons are everywhere so just take it as karma. But, but truly generally, our elders (grandparents/parents/aunty/uncle/ahpek/ahma/kanasai *oopps) are precious people in our life. It is most influential when we grow up with them. They are our very first educationist to define 'happiness' in all different ways. 

My parents makes me today. I am a good mixture of their ingredients. They gave me a well balanced diet of ups and downs. That's why my perspectives are never too optimistic and hardly way pessimistic. I don't have lots of riches but yet I don't lack things. I am given education freedom but yet not forced to act like a genius. I lived my wild years but yet always afraid to fuck things up because I can't fail my parents. That's why I am today. 

And today, I am still learning life as my heart skips every beat. And today, I can still hold on to this beautiful life because I have my beautiful parents with me. Undoubtedly, my maternal grandparents taught me some good deal of lessons before they left me. Thankfully and gratefully blessed. 

Hence, last but not least... I have learned to 'fix' things rather than 'replace' things...nowadays.  

May all be well and happy. Sadhu. 



Wednesday, November 27, 2013

自我催眠

那曾经走过的路口 我停了你却走
你背对背的走
原来怪我没智慧的天分你才要走

我想摀住我的耳朵听不见你说
我会不说 不想说
怕说了也没有用

在没有你的房间
寂寞更加明显

我走在没有你的世界
却走不到永远

我渐渐的自我催眠
却回不到从前
我渐渐的自我催眠
慢慢闭上双眼