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There will always be silver lining on the cloud....
I know dad is telling me never to give up at times of adversity...never feel that there's nothing better left for me, because I will never know that apart from all the hardship and bad luck...our guardian fairy will always look upon us....
And not knowingly, the problems can be solved...and there's nothing much we have lost in the end anyway.
You will gain some true friends along the way, some golden lessons some may not have the opportunity to learn...and then in split moments...you are daddy's big girl already...!
haha...someone had excitingly cited my love life today...I can't help to keep it blogged. Hoping I will still chuckle when I read it again....Here goes:
You are the practical type, torn between prosaic and idealistic issues
In affairs of the heart, your romantic tendencies are tempered somewhat by common sense, probably painfully earned. You may have idealized a past partner only to be crushed by the utter lack of romance that eventually occurred. You sometimes catch yourself daydreaming about a romantic rendezvous, but you force yourself to snap out of it before things get too crazy. If someone offered to make the moves on you, you certainly wouldn't resist, but you might wonder if you'd forever be held up to that same standard. You know that life isn't a fairy tale, but you sometimes wish it could be. Don't fret. You may have your head in the clouds, but your feet are firmly planted on the ground. You feel that romance isn’t something to be taken lightly, although you’d make the effort for a special someone, and you’d certainly appreciate it if someone did the same for you. It’s just that those kinds of people don’t come along too often. But they do come along every once in a while, and when they do, come up with your own way to romance them rather than relying on the nearest florist.
Just met with a car accident last Thurs 04.06.09...Nah, I wasn't really speeding that time. In fact I knew I'm not rushing against anything. It happened just in split seconds, I didn't have the time to fret anyway. But the other car owner, a lady in her late 20's..was already crying like she had just lost a life. Gosh, I couldn't believe that it would leave such an impact to her. Even when crying, she knew it was actually or...erm...partly her fault because she jammed-break at the fast lane(she got her driving license and her car in just less than a month!). No one was blaming anyone in the scenario, but I felt so bad. I feel bad because I've frightened her in such a cruel way. I do not know if I would leave any nightmare for her to ever drive again, but that certainly reminds me not to scare anyone anymore if I ever drive again.
I finally know how it feels to be really sorry. Not to the car damages, but sorry that I have emotionally hurt a person's feeling. Especially a stranger's feeling - which never crosses my mind that there's gonna be anything to do with me.
Feeling sorry makes me fully charged with responsibilities this time. I've learned that my mistake or just simply my reflexive actions can really affect another person's life so much.
Don't worry, lady. This is part & parcel of your journey to getting a driving license. And buying a new car. My brand new car was also knocked by a moron drunkard before, and I was getting over it and drive all over again.....May the Guardian Angels be watching over you all the time now...
